When the needle swings: The kind of change that starts before the goal
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There is a moment in a compass's work that most of us overlook. You set it down, and before it points anywhere useful, the needle usually swings. It passes north, comes back past it, overshoots again by a little less, and again by less than that. To anyone watching, the instrument might even look broken. But in reality, it is doing exactly what it has to do to find north.
Plenty of personal and professional lives contain the same moment, and almost nobody recognizes it for what it is. Something that used to make sense has stopped making sense. The next step isn't obvious, and neither is the step after that. From the outside – and often from the inside – it reads as drifting, or indecision. But it can also be the needle settling.
A compass can be sound and still mislead
Here is the part of the metaphor that brings us to the real work. You can own a good compass, follow it faithfully, and still end up somewhere you never intended to go. Sailors have a word for this: deviation. It's the error caused by magnetic material you are carrying with you – metal in the hull, an engine, or a tool left too close to the housing. This does not make the instrument faulty. The reading is simply being pulled by something nearby, and because the needle still points somewhere with total confidence, there is nothing in the moment that tells you it's wrong.
The professional equivalents are easy to name once you look for them. The role you might have taken because it was the obvious next one. The service that was kept on the list because it sold, not because it was the work you were best at. The direction shaped by what other people expected, or by what you had already announced you were doing and would now have to un-announce. None of these feel like errors while they're happening. They feel like good judgement, and at the time they usually are.
That is why the drift is often only visible in retrospect, and why it can take years to notice.
Three levels of change: outcomes, processes, identity
James Clear offers a useful frame here. He describes change as happening at three levels: outcomes, processes and identity. Outcomes are the results we want: the revenue, the title, the finished thing. Processes are the systems and habits that produce them. Identity is the layer underneath both: who we understand ourselves to be, and what we believe about that person.
Most attempts at change begin at the outer layer. We pick a goal, then reverse-engineer the habits that should get us there. Clear's argument is that change built the other way round holds better, because behaviour that contradicts our sense of self rarely survives a difficult month. Motivation might run out, but identity doesn't.
There is something else in that model worth noticing, though, and it's the reason we keep returning to it. Both outcome-level and process-level change assume the compass is sound. They are about travelling – faster, better, more consistently. Neither of them asks whether the instrument is being pulled. Only identity-level work goes to the instrument itself.
Which means that when the direction has gone wrong at the identity level, working harder at the outer layers doesn't correct it. It just gets you there sooner.
Calibration is not goal-setting
This is where a particular kind of conversation belongs, and it is not the kind most people picture when they hear the word coaching.
The familiar sequence is: clarify the goal, then build the route towards it. It's a good sequence and it works for a great many things. Our own ROSA model already resists starting with the destination – it begins with Reality, because a goal set without an honest look at where you actually are is a goal set on guesswork.
Identity-level work happens one layer beneath even that. It isn't about establishing a direction and then moving towards it. It's about calibrating the instrument first, and letting the direction emerge from what the corrected reading shows. You align first and see afterwards, which is the opposite of how most of us are taught to plan anything.
It feels, from the inside, like nothing is being achieved. There might be no plan at the end of the session. There is often no decision at all. What there is instead is a slow removal of the things sitting too close to the needle: the assumptions, the inherited definitions of success, the identity that made sense at twenty-eight and has been running on momentum ever since.
A compass only reads true when you stop moving. Held in a walking hand it swings continuously and tells you very little. The stillness isn't time out from the work, it's where the work happens.
The uncomfortable middle
The hard part is that this stage has no visible output, and it can last a while. You cannot force a needle to settle by staring at it, and you cannot shorten the process by choosing a direction early just to have one. A direction chosen to end the discomfort is simply the old deviation reasserting itself, dressed up as decisiveness. The swing has to run its course.
That takes a particular kind of patience, and it's a good deal easier to hold when someone else is holding it with you – which is much of what a coaching conversation is for at this stage. Not to supply an answer, but to make it safe enough to stay still.
If you recognise the state, these are some useful questions to sit with:
Where has my direction stopped feeling like mine? When did I first notice?
What in my current direction did I choose? What did I inherit?
If nobody knew what I had already committed to, what would I be doing?
Whose expectations are sitting closest to the needle right now?
Who would I have to be for the next direction to make sense?
None of these have quick answers, and producing one isn't necessarily the point. What matters is what shifts while you chew on them.
Where this leads
The needle does settle. It usually settles somewhere that, in hindsight, looks less like a discovery than a recognition – a direction that was available the whole time, obscured by something too close to see.
Until then, the swing is not a sign that you have lost your way. It's the instrument doing its job.
We talked about identity and change with Dean DiNardi on the Theatrics of Success podcast, including the idea of a goal identity: not who you are now, but who you're choosing to become:
If you would like to work with this more deliberately, our Toolbox has free resources for self-reflection and self-coaching, including structured exercises for values and direction. And if you would rather do it in a room with other people asking the same questions, our International Coaching Certification spends three days on precisely this layer.
Written by Pauliina Hallama, Founder and Chief Coaching Officer at World Coaching Organization, inspired by a recent coaching conversation and reflections on life.
